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The Perception Of Others Is What Held Me Back From A Successful Relationship With My Wife

Mindset Is crucial towards the life we desire

Mindset Is crucial towards the life we desire

Why is Mindset important? Well, as humans go we think and behave from the way we feel by the events that happen in our lives!! We decided to get hurt, angry and even strike back at others for hurting our feelings!! The only person that can hurt us is ourselves! You can believe it OR not but it is the truth… 

Why do you think war starts or relationships fall apart, it’s because of the perception of the event that has created the feeling or belief in the first place that becomes our outcome in life…

Just imagine if we knew what was causing the feelings that started every argument in the world and we knew how to deal with it… the world would be in a better space then now… 

There would be less than nothing to argue about… WOW, that would be something to see if we were able to live like that on a daily basis… hmmmmm…

Just imagine what your life would be like if you could process your thoughts that caused your unhappiness! Well, there would be a whole bunch of people walking around with permanent smiles on their faces… LOL 

There would be so much laughing going on in our lives or the world for matter without fear of judgement or negative influences in life… When we look at ourselves as the person who is creating everything that happens to us and for us… Life would be so much happier than if we didn’t take responsibility for our thoughts and feelings and behaviours!!!

What do you want in your life?

Do you want more skills to deal with issues or problems in your life?

If your answer is “NO WAY SIR I CAN DO IT ALL ON MY OWN” then that is your answer to stay where you are at NOW!!!

Well if your answer is “YES I WANT TO CREATE CHANGE IN MY LIFE!! 

Then let’s talk about what my wife and I can create to help you HELP YOURSELF…

Do You Have The Courage To Think differently???

You can contact us via email at stefanneff53@gmail.com or text me at 778-551-0419 to find out more about creating happiness in your relationship with yourself and others…

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The Perception Of Others Is What Held Me Back From A Successful Relationship With My Wife

The Perception Of Others Is What Held Me Back From A Successful Relationship With My Wife

So this is how it went down in our house!! So many years ago, I would think I was right and she was wrong – well, that was my perception of how I thought the truth was, but on her side of the coin was something totally different.

I had only picked out what I wanted to see and was blinded by the real truth of the situation.

Why was I thinking this way?

I didn’t want to face what I was doing. I could only see the front side of the two-sided coin. Means there is always two sides to every story.

When I looked at my life from my eyes today I can see what and how I was thinking, WOW what a close-minded MAN I was — My thoughts were on the protection of my self bride and NOT on the real truth.
The event in life lead to – “THOUGHTS” that lead to “FEELINGS” follows how we “BEHAVE” = “OUTCOMES”

This formula of life is the freedom that I needed to release my perception of the events that happened in my life…

Why is this formula so powerful to use to create change in life? Well, now I can understand where my feelings are coming from and I can solve the major problems that occur in my life today!!

YES, the situation does pop-up time to time that causes me to have perception issues. Then new habit on problem-solving springs into action and with practice, patience and persistence come relief after a few minutes…
What are you doing to solve your issues that pop into your life?

What are you doing to fix your perceptions of the events that are causing you problems in your relationships?

Would you use this FORMULA “E-T-F-B=O” “EVENTS – THOUGHTS – FEELINGS – BEHAVIOURS = OUTCOMES” to fix your problems in your relationships???

If you want to know how this formula works and how to implement into your life when the problem occurs then we can work together in finding the right path towards your happiness today…

Do You Have The Courage To Perceive Life In A New LIGHT??

You can contact us via email at stefanneff53@gmail.com or text me at 778-551-0419 to find out more about creating happiness in your relationship with yourself and others…

The Secret Of The Law Of Attraction

Napoleon Hill – 17 Principles (1 To 6)

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Amazing Tools When Dealing With Addictions

Quick Reference

ABC Worksheet   CBA Worksheet
ABC Crash Course CBA: Four Questions About My Addiction
Change Plan Worksheet HOV: Hierarchy of Values Worksheet

 

SMART Recovery Activities Scale (SRAS)

Activities Self-Assessment (participants) Activities Assessment (professionals)
SRAS Podcast Listen to the SRAS Podcast with Dr. Donald Meichenbaum and Dr. Julie Myers (1hr:1m)

Encyclopedia of Rational Coping Statements and Disputations

Confidence-Building and Anxiety-Reducing Rational Beliefs Putting the Past Behind You
Coping Statements for Dealing with Anxiety About Anxiety Rational Beliefs to Increase Frustration Tolerance
Decision Making 10 Rules for Happiness
Helpful Things to Say to Myself to Overcome Perfectionism The Psychology of Depression
Exchange Vocabulary Tool Ingredients of Happy and Healthy Living

Relapse Prevention

How to Deal with Backsliding Forward Steps to Recovery
Activities You Might Enjoy Backward Steps to Addictive Behaviour
Trigger Homework Sheet Lifestyle Balance Pie
VACI SROL – SMART Recovery Online

 

Additional Homework

Challenging My Unhelpful Idea Self-Acceptance
Finding the ABCs Self-Enhancement Possibilities
Helping or Hurting? Self-Promotion
Identifying Underlying Irrational Rules Self-Help Recovery Homework Suggestions
Interpretation or Evaluation? Values and Goals Clarification 
DISARM Rational vs. Irrational: Three Key Questions About Your Beliefs
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Different Mindfulness Practices Around the World Law Of Attraction With Jack Canfield

If you look at any culture throughout history, you’ll find that their traditions include some form of meditation or mindfulness practice. Christians and Muslims pray. Catholics recite rosaries. Buddhists meditate. People in India practice yoga. And so on. http://bit.ly/2T2oOrf In this video I talk about some of the different mindfulness practices around the world and their benefits.

 

 

 

Stefan Oskar Neff Law Of Attraction

Wake UP To Your Potential – Law Of Attraction With Bob Proctor

 

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Stefan Oskar Neff Podcast Of The AgesThank You Life 101 Podcast Episode #23 Hosted By Stefan Oskar Neff
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I want to take you on a journey. A man’s journey, from self-indulgent zero to empathetic hero. On the journey to finding my purpose, I crossed continents, chased dreams, fought nightmares and found, that all the crazy hair-brained things I did to “protect myself” never really helped protect me at all. They only slowed me down from finally arriving at an understanding of who I am and why I’m here.

It was only when I met a kindred spirit, a woman who was equally as troubled, and searching to escape her family, that I began to wake up to the nightmare I called my life. My whole world was turned upside-down in the blink of an eye, and it left me wondering who was crazier me or her.

Was my meeting this woman fate? Or was it a desperate act of a self-destructive man, with only one possible outcome? Was this woman going to do me in, or was she my one chance at redemption? In order to find out, I was going to have to let go of everything that I claimed as my personal right as a man, and look in the mirror with clarity and honesty.